Chrsitian missonary dating

The big question, of course, is whether missionary dating actually works.”” (We address this issue in the Single Yet Preparing topic.

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Naturally, the issue of interfaith dating or marriage is going to keep coming up.

Without even considering faith, people are desperate enough to find someone to connect with, to feel themselves with.

"He told me he was a believer." "He goes to church every Sunday." "At least he isn't bad person." "He grew up in church." "I know if I can just be the example, he will change." I know of the desperation. It would take some time – even a few years – before I would get it.

I would have to experience all the levels to truly understand. Perhaps you are at one of these right now and are struggling with giving him up -- with giving the relationship to God. I seemed to be on a mission to get guys "saved," "walking with God" and "growing in their faith." So what is wrong with that?

There would be other times when he would show, but be late, bored and distracted. How many guys would I date in the hopes of either getting them "saved" or "walking right" with God? I am sure there may be many more or less based on your own experience.

How long was it going to take for me to listen to God? I have heard all the stories, not to mention I have a few of my own. I guess I have always known in my heart that any guy who didn't love God, didn't put Christ first and wasn't growing in his relationship with Christ by the evidence of his fruit is someone I shouldn't date. As each relationship unfolded, there would be a pattern.

are concerned, it would seem you’re far more likely to find someone compatible using 100% of the “eligible” population than to do so using only 10% of the “eligible” population.

Now, there are plenty of Christians who will tell others not to date non-Christians.

It didn't matter because there seemed to be a pattern – a pattern where I would meet this great guy,and he would tell me "Sure, I go to church," which, of course, was enough information for me to date him. Some of you haven't even begun to wait, while others may have given up.

I would arrive at church early, eagerly waiting to have him join me, when much to my repeated surprise he wouldn't show. I have personally been through the all the levels listed below.

Now, just think if you cut the “eligible” dating population down by 90%.

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